I read something interesting recently that has rocked my world a bit. It reminded me of one of the reasons why I moved away from familiar surroundings and close friends. Here is what I read.
If your absence doesn’t bother them, your presence meant nothing to them.
I miss my wife who died 9 years ago. I miss my handful of good friends who I continue to keep in touch with. I am grateful for the new friends I have made living here and their overwhelming kindness to me over the past 2 years. I am glad that I live here and not there because of that one statement.
Sometimes I wonder how people who I have known for over 40 years did not even realize that I was gone and not one of them expressed missing me the last time that I visited.
My last visit was my last visit. I will never go back there again. Except for a handful of friends there is no one there that I want to see. I miss my friends, but I do not miss the atmosphere of the place where they live. Plus, I lived there so long that I have seen all I ever wanted to see there.
Life is like the turning of the page. I have turned a page in my life; I have closed the book on that part of my life, and I have turned to a new chapter in my life as I look to what the future has in store for me.