From time to time, I think about my move to where I am. Did I do the right thing, did I make a big mistake, etc. And every time I reach the same conclusion. Moving here was the best thing that I could have done. Is it perfect here? Not really. But since you have to live somewhere, here is good enough.
I have reached a point, after living here for three years, that I am surprised when I am still surprised by people or things in this new location. Someone will do something, or I will notice a strange new attitude, or I will read about a new place, or someone will reminisce about things that I know nothing about, and I will be surprised that I am still finding out things that I never knew.
I may never be an expert about this place. I may never learn all that there is to know about these people. But year after year I am becoming more comfortable living in this strange new world.
To add a new wife into this mix might be more than I could handle. To learn a new family and a new person on top of a new city and a new state, might be more than this old heart of mine could take.
So, I keep both eyes open, and my mouth shut, as I try to take in all the strange, new things that this world has to offer.