I am going to my daughter’s house for Thanksgiving day. This is one reason why I moved here. I had grown tired of spending holidays by myself. By living here I never spend holidays or birthdays alone. I am grateful for that.
My wife’s birthday came and went and I didn’t even notice it until my daughter asked me about it. I have moved on in life. I have memories and Kathy shows up in my dreams once in a while. Like last night.
Memories were another reason for me moving. My memories will be with me until I die. But they do not carry the sting or the hurt they once did. It has taken almost 10 years to get here. I’m not sure that I would have survived in my old life that long the way things were going.
My mother is handling the death of her husband much better than I handled the death of my wife. Maybe getting older makes grief easier. She is 88 years old.
Happy Thanksgiving to all of you.